Wouldn't it be great to be perfect? Or, maybe it wouldn't. I will never forget seeing a puppet show (yes, I said puppet show) in New York City, many years ago, with the essential flow of dialogue being something like this: "I want to be the very best! The very best best!" "But not too good. Be the best but not the best best!" "I want to be the very best. So good. But not too good." "Because if you were too good, people wouldn't like you." "It's not good to be too good." ...somewhat over and over in that manner -- outright saying that it's possible to be too good. It was funny then. But it wasn't true then and it isn't true now. You probably can't be too good. But, in the pursuit of good (or whatever else you're chasing) it IS possible to be difficult. Haven't we all been difficult? Here's the thing (there's got to be a thing!): we do NOT always realize it when we are being d...