High Performance Leadership

Have you ever had a boss who yells at you? I have. I hated it. She was the one boss I've quit. I left the job because no matter what I did, she only saw the need for correction and yelled, insulted, and belittled me. She was a bully. People leave people who yell at them. We all get excited. We all might raise our voices occasionally. But, there are seldom any reasons worth the damage to yell at a direct report. Leadership does not mean loud. Sometimes it's the quietest voice in the room. -- doug smith

Is your boss a bully? A surprisingly large number of people in the workforce (over half!) have had a boss who uses bullying, Machiavellian methods of authority and control. It can be really tough to deal with, especially when you consider that the boss has ultimate (or so it would seem) control over your current career. They use that to their advantage, but there are things that we can do when faced with a bully boss. Gleaned from several sources, I consider this list to be a work in progress. I'm interested in your ideas as well because as I conduct training on communication skills, leadership, and productivity many people struggle with what can only be defined as bad bosses. Here are some things to do: Remain assertive (not aggressive and NOT passive.) Maintain eye contact. (1) Do NOT rely on HR for help. They are NOT on your side. Document every incident with the person who causes you concern, including especially incidents of bullying, teasing, berating, harassin...