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Talk Yourself Into It

Do you ever get stuck in a negative phase?

When things get rough (professionally OR personally) it can hit me right in the leadership center and throw me off kilter. That's no way to set an example and it's no way to lead. People count on their leaders to keep their focus and remain positive, even when the world is throwing a crap sandwich down the lunch box of life.

Sometimes I have to talk myself into a positive point of view. When I do, it works.

So if you need to, talk yourself into it. Stay positive. Given the choice between falling into the gnarly crack of negative thinking and keeping the course with positive energy, I'd go with positive. How about you?

-- Doug Smith


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  1. David SpiegelApril 12, 2016 at 8:27 AM

    ".....even when the world is throwing a crap sandwich down the lunch box of life."- What a great line!

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