Can you solve your biggest problem without facing the pain it produces? The only motivation we need to solve a problem is to recognize the cost of not solving it. Leaving it alone gives us what we've got and that is seldom enough. To move toward growth, to achieve our goals, we must find a way around or through the things that block us, the things that cause us grief, our problems. Very often the solution is imbedded in the description of that pain. Getting to work late makes the boss angry. The pain is the boss's anger, but the cause is getting to work late. The fix? Get to work on time. What's the solution to that? There is a world of possibilities. When I procrastinate my projects run late and then my deadlines back-up causing me stress. I don't like that kind of stress. It's a kind of emotional pain. How do I fix that? Maybe not procrastinate on those projects and solve that problem. The solution isn't always so obvious, but it's there. The pain ...
by doug smith