Have you ever had to work with someone who does not share your values?
In all honesty, I think we all do that all the time. Our values are important, and we strive to live by them every day, but not everyone shares those values and yet we do need the help of people who have different values.
It IS so much easier to work with people who share our values. Shared values build trust. Shared values build understanding. Shared values build collaboration.
But sometimes we have to be a role model for those values and hope that our demonstration of our values in action will show their merit. By being a positive example of our values in action, we might just encourage other people to embrace those values.
And by showing our willingness to work with people we disagree with we can show how we facilitate, rather than force, our way of living.
It's harder to collaborate with people who don't share our values -- but not impossible.
Who have you been avoiding because of their values? What if you could find a way to demonstrate the benefits of living your values by working with them?
Action Steps
- The next time you find yourself working with someone with differing values, talk about it. Talk about how you will approach your work. Talk about how you will cooperate as much as possible AND where your boundaries are.
- The next time you bump against a value that seems to conflict with your values, talk about it. Find out if the conflict is intentional, accidental, or incidental. Communicating for results talks bold and honest talk. Are you ready for that?
-- Doug Smith
In all honesty, I think we all do that all the time. Our values are important, and we strive to live by them every day, but not everyone shares those values and yet we do need the help of people who have different values.
It IS so much easier to work with people who share our values. Shared values build trust. Shared values build understanding. Shared values build collaboration.
But sometimes we have to be a role model for those values and hope that our demonstration of our values in action will show their merit. By being a positive example of our values in action, we might just encourage other people to embrace those values.
And by showing our willingness to work with people we disagree with we can show how we facilitate, rather than force, our way of living.
It's harder to collaborate with people who don't share our values -- but not impossible.
Who have you been avoiding because of their values? What if you could find a way to demonstrate the benefits of living your values by working with them?
Action Steps
- The next time you find yourself working with someone with differing values, talk about it. Talk about how you will approach your work. Talk about how you will cooperate as much as possible AND where your boundaries are.
- The next time you bump against a value that seems to conflict with your values, talk about it. Find out if the conflict is intentional, accidental, or incidental. Communicating for results talks bold and honest talk. Are you ready for that?
-- Doug Smith
Thanks Doug!
ReplyDeleteAlways a pleasure, Dave. I know that you take values very seriously and you're to be commended for that!
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