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What About The Millennials?

I'm sharing this because occasionally one of my learners will ask "what can we do about the millennials?" with complete exasperation.

There are lots of answers and lots of approaches. Think of this as part one in a dialogue here. Here's what Simon Sinek recently said.





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  1. Wow....that was great....Thanks for sharing Doug! I love Simon Sinek.....Best read this year for me was Simon Sineks "Start with Why!"

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    1. Thanks, David. Yep, he really gets it right in his work on "why."

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