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Confident Leaders

What do you expect from your people?

Could they possibly achieve more toward your unified vision than YOU ever have -- and would you be emotionally OK with that? 

Confident leaders expect their people to exceed their own accomplishments in pursuit of the common vision. It's how high performance leaders multiply their efforts toward success.  

As a leader, if you are going to achieve your goals you will need the confidence in your people that they will achieve their goals, and the confidence of your people that you will do you need to do to help them.

Are you confident enough to expect more from your people? Are you making it possible for your people to succeed? What will you do today to open more doors to success for your people?  


-- Douglas Brent Smith

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