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What If You Were One Snappy Dresser?

I have a wild question for you as a leader today. I ask this because I believe that creativity is one of four major leadership traits (the others being clarity, courage, and compassion). Here goes:

How would you dress if you considered yourself the most creative person you know?

That might seem completely out of the question, depending on where you work, but ask it anyway. Would you look like Salvadore Dali (or perhaps one of his paintings?) Would it be like someone from "Dancing With The Stars" or maybe even some survival type program from The Learning Channel?

You don't actually need to pick out that wardrobe and wear it today, but what would it look like? What if you were one snappy dresser?

I find it helpful to think thru some creative choices occasionally. Jarring ourselves out of auto-pilot helps us develop newer and better ideas. Releasing our social constraints, even momentarily - even in our imaginations - helps us discover more about who we really are. Because who we are is so much more than what we do. And who we are is a limitless list of possibilities.

So explore some part of those possibilities. Play dress up, if only in your head. See how much fun that can be -- and how open it helps you become.

-- Doug Smith


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