Our Flaws Are Reflected

Do you know what bothers me the most? Behaviors from other people that I struggle with myself. Anger, disappointment, impatience, disorganization. When people give that to me, I don't like it, because I don't like it in myself.

It's not always that way, but when it is, the emotions can be high.

Our flaws are reflected back at us. Usually, the reflections get stronger and stronger until we correct those flaws in ourselves.

It's never ending, always important, vital and obvious: we can't fix other people but when we improve ourselves other people get mysteriously easier to deal with. It's not magic, but it sure feels that way.

As leaders we often find ourselves with team members who share the exact flaws that bother us the most -- our flaws reflected.

I'm working on fixing what I can fix: my own flaws.

How about you?

-- Doug Smith

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David SpiegelFebruary 4, 2016 at 12:48 PM
With the surname of "Spiegel" I live with reflection every day!
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