Borrowing A Bit From John Wesley

John Wesley, the famous theologian who was instrumental in launching what became the United Methodist Church and who spear headed a huge Christian revival, once said:

“Do all the good you can,

By all the means you can,

In all the ways you can,

In all the places you can,

At all the times you can,

To all the people you can,

As long as ever you can.” (quoted at ThinkExist)

It's been quoted in various ways. The message is clear. Do good no matter what: no excuses. It can feel like a full time job, but in a way, isn't it our only job? Don't we all want to leave footprints that matter by creating a better world, developing better relationships, and helping those who can't help themselves?

I'd like to paraphrase Mr. Wesley a bit today in the context of centered leadership and say:

Do good where ever you are, even if you're in the wrong place.

What's the worng place? Any place where you're not appreciated. Any place where you are resisted. Any place where you feel like you don't belong. You're there for a reason, so do some good. Do good anyway.

It can happen twenty times a day - we find ourselves in the wrong place. Or, maybe it just happens once. Or (gasp) maybe it's where we live, Take a breath, focus, and center yourself.

Do good where ever you are, even if you're in the wrong place.

Thank you, John Wesley. I'll do the best I can...

-- Douglas Brent Smith

http://frontrangeleadership.com

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