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We're All Gifted


Do you want your team to be the best that it can be?

First, you may not achieve that for quite a while because teams keep growing and changing. Second, when you do that it will be because you've been able to utilize the gifts everyone on your team has to give. Everyone on your team is gifted -- even that person who drives you to distraction. When you help each team member to discover their gifts, you've built capacity and potential on your team. Where you take it is up to you and your team -- and when you've found it, you can build on it.

You're skills are not in question (although, like everyone else, can be developed more.) Your intention is your intention. What your team becomes, though, is largely due to what you can do to build them up even as you develop yourself.

Make the most of who you are without making less of anyone else.

-- doug smith

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